Thought for the Week -
I'm not sure what the weather is like in your part of the world but here in Ireland we've had rain and grey clouds all summer. Without sunshine a number of people are beginning to get depressed. Those who can are taking their holidays where they are guaranteed sunshine. Others are resigned to a dull grey time in what's left of our summer.
Having said that, there are a lot of people who are happy, even among the depressing grey clouds. How do they do it, while most people around are in a dull grey state of mind?
Focus on something brighter
Is it because they don't see the greyness? Could it be that their focus is on something other than the dull weather? Where do they find their sunshine? They must put their attention on something brighter than the darkness in their physical world.
Love is something that always brightens us. If we do something we love, think of someone we love, our attitude brightens, our whole world lightens up. We begin to smile a bit more, we see a bit of sunshine peeking between the clouds. Our brightness shines into others, adding a little of the love we have into their lives.
So the solution to our dull environment is not a change it the weather outside but a brighter inner focus on what we love. This love will radiate to those around you.
Vibrations
Have you ever noticed what happens when you meet someone who is angry? The way it works with me is that I become angry in sympathy with them. If I'm in an area with them but don't have any direct interaction with them, I will try and leave the area. I don't want to pick up any of their angry vibrations.
The same thing happens with a person who has love in their heart. You pick up their sense of happiness and it lightens you.
Recently I met a friend whom I hadn't seen for a few months. It was good to be around her, she is such a bright and caring person. She loves what she works at and loves her family completely. I was happier because we had met. Her core happiness rubbed off on me and I had a brighter attitude because of her.
Give Love
This is not something that can be faked. It only comes if we are genuinely happy and love what we do. The easiest way of getting love into your life is to give love. Love needs to flow from one Soul to another. It’s not something you can possess or hold onto. If we can find something we enjoy doing that has a beneficial effect for another Soul, that will probably be a good place to start.
You will begin to discover that the more love you give the more love you get. Your attitude brightens; you are a little happier. This grows bit by bit. It reflects into the lives of others and their lives brighten a little. After a few weeks or months you look around and see that your life has changed. It is brighter, it is happier and there is more love.
You have learned to brighten your summer yourself and brighten others around you in the process.