Thought for the Week
I was at a funeral during the week and I was struck by the sadness of the family of the Soul who had departed. It is true that when a friend or loved one moves on to a different place, we will miss them, but we can still meet with them and enjoy their company on a new level.
A friend was telling me, while she was out for a walk recently, she met her very good friend who had died about two years ago. In her imagination she was able to talk and enjoy being with her friend. When the experience was over she was really happy to have spent time with him. She was glowing with the love from her friend for hours afterwards.
While her friend may not have been with her, here in the physical reality, the warmth and love she received from being with him, was very much a reality. She definitely felt better after meeting her friend.
Imagination
As children we used our imagination to play games and pass the time as we got through the day. As adults we’ve been taught that anything that we can’t touch, see, smell or hear is not ‘real’. However we have our emotions, memories, thinking and intuition which we use on various levels. These inner facilities help us understand our outer world but they are also the link to our inner world.
At the funeral, a family member told me about one of the grand children who went into see their dead grandfather. When he came out someone asked the child “Did you see Granddad?” His answer was “That’s just a body, that’s not Granddad.” The child could see the person he knew was gone and all that was left was a body, not the real person.
When we die
When we die, we cease contact with our physical world but our inner world keeps running, we still have our emotions, memories, thinking and intuition working. We just don’t have to worry about our physical body any more. The easiest way of grasping this is to look at what happens when we sleep.
When we go to sleep, our physical body stops functioning, we leave our physical world. We then begin to dream and we enter our inner worlds. When we sleep we leave our physical world on a temporary basis. When we die we leave it on a permanent basis. We take up permanent residence in our inner or dream worlds when we die. Not a bad place to be, is it?
Blessed with Love
This is one of the reasons I rarely cry at funerals. I know the person is in a better place. They’ve left their tired and sick body and now have a much younger and healthier body to work with. When people tell of meeting their older family members who have died, in a dream, they usually remark how young and healthy they look. Of course they do, they are in their dream worlds which is generally a nicer place than our physical world.
So the next time you think of a loved one who has passed on, enjoy the time with them, now, in your thoughts and imagination. Have fun with them, chat with them, ask them how they are, what they are doing. Enjoy their company. When you return, you’ll be blessed with the warmth of their love in your heart.
* Ed Parkinson